Nothing is better than a good time in the bedroom with your significant other. When you love someone.. you always want to find new ways to keep them excited and wanting you, just as much as the first day you got together.
We have put a list together of the top tips to keep the fire going in the bedroom.. maybe you can see if some of these tips work with your partner?
1. Be brave and try new things.
Over the course of a relationship, it’s normal for most couples to become accustomed to their usual sexual script. You have a set way of doing things and it can get predictable.
To mix it up, try a different position or add an accessory like a blind fold to spice up your usual activities.
You could also introduce sex toys, role play or dress up.
2. Make out like teenagers obsessed with each other.
It’s safe to say that when you first enter a relationship, keeping your hands off eachother is very hard. You partake in sexy kissing, touching, making out like teenagers, basically.
The behaviour you once had with each other can change and it’s important to keep that same energy.
Be cute and obsessed with each other. Kiss like nobody is watching and touch like you want to rip your partner’s clothes off. It’s simple really.
3. Make time for sexy activities.
Susan Kaye, who is a sex therapist located in San Antonio and Austin, Texas, and Philadelphia, recommends:
“Taking time out to spend with your partner is one of the most loving things you can do for each other”
“I suggest that couples get a copy of the book 8 Erotic Nights, which offers eight sensual activities that will show you and your partner how to please each other.”
4. Act out your fantasies and discuss them.
Roger Libby, a sex therapist and adjunct professor and distinguished lecturer at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Sexuality in San Francisco, says:
“Fantasies are underutilized by couples”
“But it’s important to use your imagination and share your most erotic desires with your partner.”
Try to set the mood by lighting some candles and playing music to get you in the mood.
5. Don’t stop at the bedroom.. be adventurous.
HAVE IT ANYWHERE! The kitchen, the bathroom, the couch, the floor… there are no rules and wherever you feel like it, do it. Trying something new like a new location can really add to the excitement and make your experience 10x better.