It’s safe to say that losing your significant other to someone else is a truly heartbreaking feeling. It’s the biggest fear men and women have to face in a relationship and it causes a huge amount of overthinking and and pain.
Sometimes, you just know. Your gut is a powerful tool and you should always listen to it..But for some of us, it’s not always clear to see what’s going on in our partner’s head. Here is a list of major red flags that will get you thinking..
1. He lacks enthusiasm.. especially around you..
If your guy seems less ‘happy’ or ‘animated’ in your company, it can mean that he’s secretly wishing he was somewhere else.. with someone else maybe?
Faking feelings seems easy but when you actually have to do it, it’s not as simple as it sounds.. you’ll be able to tell if he’s fixed on the idea of someone else when around you. A lot of guys aren’t the best with their feelings, especially if they feel uncomfortable and it shows easily.
2. He doesn’t care about your needs during sex…
Guys.. and girls.. love sex. It’s a fact. If it’s on the table, it’s pretty evident they aren’t going to say no.
Even if he’s no longer in love with you, he’ll still be open to the physical stuff. The way to tell he isn’t that into you anymore, it he will stop trying to meet your sexual needs, that’s a bad sign for a number of reasons.
If he only focus’s on his pleasure and doesn’t seem to be paying attention to you, it’s possible that he’s thinking about someone else he’s met and how he’d rather be sleeping with that person.
3. Something tells you he’s lying..
Unfortunately, when feelings change, lies can happen. Lying will occur when your guy is lying even to himself about his feelings… and he’ll try to make sure you don’t think he’s cheating even though in his mind he’s fixed on someone else.
If you spot your boyfriend exhibiting tell-tale signs of lying, there’s a good chance he’s developed feelings for someone else.
4. He finds reasons to speak, be around or touch his ‘crush’…
If you you believe he’s developed feelings for another women he will try to touch her in any way, being appropriate of course. He will want to be around her at least now and then, because his main point of interest now lies in her.
If your boyfriend tries to initiate physical contact of any kind with another woman, he may be emotionally cheating on you, and that is not okay.
5. The little things, die..
The little things count.. that’s probably something you’ve heard a lot and is very true in a healthy relationship.
He used to make you coffee…buy your favourite flowers.. give you a massage.
If that lovely stuff stops happening abruptly, it could mean that your boyfriend is thinking of making someone else happy… rather than you. Which is a horrible feeling.